I am trying to remain positive, but two things are really bothering me. Once a guy crosses 35, however, he (theoretically) tends to get more serious.One, that younger women are no longer interested in dating men who are even just slightly (3-5 years) older than them and sometimes want to date men 5-10 years younger then them. Alas, the women with whom he wants to get serious are 27-34.Unless you are into live in or married, which is all together a different ballgame, the man is NOT responsible for paying your bills.I’m a 42 year old single male who recently left a 5 year relationship for various reasons, but mainly because I wanted kids and she did not.I thought that since I was an attractive, fit, well-educated, financially and emotionally secure guy that I would have no problem finding a woman in her mid 30s to settle down with and start a family.I have tried a combination of online dating, speed dating, professional singles events, volunteering, happy hours etc. I thought that online dating would be great since you are essentially pre-screening people for dates. Sometimes she will even join you in a post meal belch or a downstairs scratch.
Here’s one for the guys: the signs to look out for that mean you may have just found that person and you should keep her in your life forever. She defends you no matter what you do or say and she is always your number one supporter.
The dating game is fun but the thrill of flirting and meeting lots of different women loses its appeal extremely quickly.